| Monday, June 18, 2007 |
| How To Ask Her Out |
by Alex Daniels
Have you had your eye on someone, but just haven't had the nerve to ask her out? Don't worry, it's common to experience a few jitters when it comes to matters of the heart. What's important, however, is that you take the chance and see if she just may have had her eye on you, too.
The first and most important step to asking anyone out is to first determine whether or not they are available. Before making your move, make sure that she isn't married or in a relationship. Once you're sure she's not spoken for, get ready to make your move.
By their very nature, women are romantics at heart. This means that you will need to find the perfect balance of charm and sincerity if you want to win her over. A word of caution, however, is that a lot of charm may be too much. You don't want her to get the idea that you're a ladies man, so it's okay to be flattering but avoid any cheesy lines that may make you seem overly confident. Women respond to honesty, so speak from your heart and tell her how you feel.
If you are up to the task, try to get some alone time and explain to her that you are hoping she would be free for the upcoming weekend. Explain that you would like to invite her out to dinner or a movie and, if she's not busy, you would like to call her later to make definitive plans. This is a very sincere and subtle approach to asking a woman out and, in most cases, it will be appreciated. You should also give her your number incase she is unreachable at the time you call.
If you don't quite have the confidence to ask her out directly, consider inviting her out to a group gathering. This could be a casual weekend outing with you and some friends, but make sure that you are the one inviting her and let her know that it would mean a lot if she could be there. This is a great way to spend some quality time together without experiencing the pressures of a typical date, but she will likely suspect that you are interested and will give you subtle hints if she shares your feelings.
Do you prefer a little romance yourself? If you do, you can always try the secret admirer approach, but you have to do so in a classy way. Perhaps you could send her a rose or maybe a box of candy, along with a note that says "Someone thinks your sweet" or "A beautiful rose for a beautiful woman." Having a secret admirer is nice, but be sure to let her know within a reasonable amount of time that it's you. Otherwise, you run the risk of her thinking it's someone else or possibly even being frightened. It's a good idea to let her know on the same week as your gift arrives and just explain that you are shy and wanted to send her a little something to let her know how special she is. Most women will love this approach and it will win you some serious points in both creativity and thoughtfulness, which are both very attractive traits in a man.
Life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so make a move today that could affect the rest of your life or, at the very least, your weekend plans.
About the Author
Alex consults for several retailers, including a specialized furniture care shop offering leather cleaner that professionals use, and also a gift shop offering favors, supplies and all sorts of wedding stuff.Labels: for him, romance starter tips |
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